Imagine this scenario.
Chairman says, "Lets debate next Friday."
Whiner: "Can't; there is a ball game that night. Holding the debate that night would be biased against my candidate."
Chairman: "Your candidate is playing in that game and can't make the debate? He better get his priorities straight if he wants to be our nominee."
Whiner: "You just don't understand."
Chairman: "Okay, I'm listening; explain it."
Whiner: "It's just not fair."
Chairman: "Why?"
Whiner: "See? You just don't get it."
And so on and so forth.